Everyone struggles with loneliness from time to time, but those of us with an insecure attachment style — particularly the anxious and disorganised types — are likely to find the evening more challenging than others.
"As insecure attachment styles often revolve around how we feel others see us romantically, to manage nighttime anxiety, you will need to dismantle the beliefs you have that someone must want you in order for you to feel good."
It's 11 pm now where I live and I've just read your article right after watching the movie "The Great Escaper." It's based on a true story about a couple who loved each other for 70 years. I will never know how that feels and I'm trying hard not to feel bummed before I go to bed.
Hey, it's hard watching shows when we're feeling this way, I know! I feel that way sometimes. I try to remember we're on our own paths, and love doesn't necessarily show up in the ways it does for others. I certainly won't have a 70-year relationship!
"As insecure attachment styles often revolve around how we feel others see us romantically, to manage nighttime anxiety, you will need to dismantle the beliefs you have that someone must want you in order for you to feel good."
It's 11 pm now where I live and I've just read your article right after watching the movie "The Great Escaper." It's based on a true story about a couple who loved each other for 70 years. I will never know how that feels and I'm trying hard not to feel bummed before I go to bed.
Hey, it's hard watching shows when we're feeling this way, I know! I feel that way sometimes. I try to remember we're on our own paths, and love doesn't necessarily show up in the ways it does for others. I certainly won't have a 70-year relationship!