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You Don’t Love That Person, You Love Their Intermittent Rewards

The Science Of Intermittent Rewards, and Hot/Cold Relationship

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Joe Gibson
Feb 21, 2024
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The Science Of Intermittent Rewards, and Hot/Cold Relationship

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Attraction is a complex thing. Our caregivers model us our first relationships that we hope gives us the tools to build secure relationships in adulthood and school teaches us nothing about navigating social lives despite the fact we are evolutionarily-sp…

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