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Thinking Too Much About Someone… Is It Love?

It isn’t what you think.

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Joe Gibson
Mar 10, 2023
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It isn’t what you think.

I use to think the fact some of my love interests would take up so much of my mental space meant they were worth keeping around. That the fact I couldn’t stop thinking about them meant they were someone special. There was so much fault in this mentality it kept them firmly on a pedestal and me, hopelessly clinging on.

No one shoul…

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