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Are You Addicted to The Chase?

How To Curb Unhealthy Attractions and Find Comfort In Stability

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Joe Gibson
Oct 31, 2024
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How To Curb Unhealthy Attractions and Find Comfort In Stability

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Forever being the chaser is exhausting. Sure, there is a thrill attached to wanting to win someone’s affection but if it were really worth the prize, wouldn’t we all be happy and a little less lonely?

In short, the chase is rarely ever worth the effort …

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