Above The Middle

An Honest Letter About My Fear of Love

What It Means to Want Love and Run From It at the Same Time

Dec 1 • 

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November 2025

Joe’s article debriefs: Insecure Attachment Styles at Night

Hey Substack & lovely subscribers, I’ve been thinking of ways to be more interactive with you beyond just posting articles/newsletters so I’m starting a…

Nov 23 • 

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Why Insecure Attachment Styles Struggle At Night Time

Everyone struggles with loneliness from time to time, but those of us with an insecure attachment style — particularly the anxious and disorganised…

Nov 23 • 

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You Won’t Find A Secure Relationship on Hope Alone, Make Love Your Purpose

A Guide To Living With Love In Mind

Nov 18 • 

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Life Updates: I’m In The Transformation vortex: What’s Going on, Joe?

Hey readers, supporters and people who maybe subscribed once and forgot they’d subscribed to me (hello!).

Nov 15 • 

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Do You Worry Your Dreams Will Never Be Real?

Jungian Psychology Can Help You Manage and Rationalise Your Doubt

Nov 11 • 

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The More I Know The Less Sure I Am

Where Personal Growth Is Concerned, You Simply Can’t Know It All

Nov 10 • 

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October 2025

Disorganised People Find It Hard To Make A Decision: Stay or GO?

We Are Trapped In The Middle

Oct 13 • 

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September 2025

The Cost of Self-Abandoning When Dating

If there was one piece of advice I would give someone who is looking to improve their romantic relationships, it would be this:

Sep 30 • 

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Meet Big Dreams With Small Steps

How I'm Approaching Turning My Life Upside Down

Sep 24 • 

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The Disorganised Paradox: I Am Both Deeply Emotional and Emotionless

Why You Treat Others Badly and Sabotage the Good

Sep 22 • 

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Stepping Into Authenticity Means Dissolving The Idea That You're "Too Much" for This World

The idea we are "too much" is a common belief to hold when you have been made to feel less-than in past relationships.

Sep 16 • 

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